[committee] One of your members aggressive overreaction and violent act of slamming the club door in my face

[Teisha Mui]

Dear UCC,

One of memebers has some serious issues. I was merely watching another
memeber playing league. We were chatting  and he was telling what was new
to the game and we were talking. Then the memeber in question asked for me
to move back as from his chair. I was already away from him. I detected he
had some issue as I was already
nowhere near him.

Then I kept chatting to the another member and then memeber in question
aggressively shouted you kicked my chair, get back away from me!

An overreaction for sure. He was rather aggressive, abrupt. I told him dude
chill I didn't intentionally kick your chair I was just moving, as the
table behind made it hard to move further back.

He did not like me telling him cool it bro I want kicking your chair at
all. He insisted furiously, that I was in fact kicking his chair on
purpose. He was panicked, stressed and losing it at me for no reason. I
have no clue what his issue or problem really was. But he was unhinged.

Aggressive overreacting, was not warranted. No amount of aggression  to
another memeber is okay period! According to university by laws. I
continued to try to tell him to breath and chill. There was no reason for
him to be so angry and worked up that much.

I have people kick my chair all the time in lecture,s I don't lash out with
that much aggression. I told him I think your are having a panic attack,
and was saying for him to please calm down as its not on. As his reaction
was severe, regarding someone's foot touching his chair was beyond reason.

He needed to calm down and chill out. As he was very provoking. His
passive-aggressive tense and manner at the end of semester was just not
needed. I barely had a chance to say what's up. I kept insisting he calm
down and chill. I told him his aggression was not worth this, and he had no
right to lash. At another student/ memeber. I was being passive and just
watching a game geez.

He then freaked out and yelled get out. At that point it was personal and
not sure his position in UCC but enough was enough.  He has no right to use
authority to kick me out when I wasn't aggressive, I wasn't rude at that
point, nor did I even know him. I knew he was a memeber or on the committee
at some point in the club at ucc at some point.

But I never knew him personally or knew anything about him. All I know is
he has deeper issues and he shouldn't let his own internal issues or
problems be put onto another memeber. He seems to have an attitude issue,
and he if can't control his anger shouldn't be allowed to be in the room.
He was aggressive and never just calmed down to see his actions weren't
warranted. He could of talked to me more respectfully then passive
aggressive.

He then accused me of being banned which was ridiculous and that I did
something wrong and just was defamatory to me. He was accusing me of things
I never did. I have been busy I visited maybe once or twice a year just to
say 👋.  So whatever he was accusing me of I couldn't be that person as I
haven't been at Cameron hall all year. Or at all during 2020 covid time

So he definitely had an agenda when I said I don't deserve to be treated
like that. And he did not have a justified reason to kick me out. As he was
doing all the aggression, yelling. He was the one who was very aggressive.
And the uni sees his aggression as abuse. As I did not know him, nor did I
do anything wrong, nor was anything I did worth the sheer aggression. As he
clearly was having some sort of episode or panic at my expensive. Something
triggered him beyond a person footing touching the bottom of his chair.

Also I did not deserve to be accused of someone else he knew. He made
several allegations  against me and would not just take it easy. I was
trying to say dude your aggression was not needed. He was saying I was
stigmatising mental health not at all. Clearly he was having a panic attack
at my expense. As no one reasonable reacts with near shouting aggression
over a bump into a chair. I thought at one point he was going to punch me
as he turned around at me really aggressive.

Also his accusations and defamation of myself, def were going beyond a bump
of foot into a chair. I would seriously consider pulling him aside or
removing him from the club for a temporary time next year! He acts like he
owns the club and he rules it. You cannot kick a person out for saying dude
breath, calm down. And I think your having a panic attack.

Sort your memeber out. Whatever I did did not warrant the treatment I got.
When I was trying to tell him look mate don't be this upset, what happened
was nothing. He then started out of the blue accusing me at stigmatising,
again as a scape goat for his actions.  Not on, further more I am a beyond
blue ambassador so he knew nothing of me at all. I think he he needs to
know the club isn't his and he can't control and rule the club like that. I
herd numbers dropped no wonder why. This dude should not be in the club if
his attitude and act like that. Superiority complex, or incel act up or
spolit brat type immaturity.

I was there literally to renew my membership after a year. And I won't be
renewing and to the 30 or so friends I told to join. I will be advising
them not to join up with a disgusting maniac type behaviour, rude, mental
unstable person like that in the club. This guy is not stable. If he is
like that antisocial maybe is why not a lot of people come to ucc, or join
due to unwelcoming or antisocial vibe that occurs at times. Almost like
spolit brat type behaviour.

I know some people that are doing grad further studies at or graduated suni
that are part of old school ucc, past committee ex presidents that saw the
video footage and weren't impressed.  They told me his very temperamental,
as they knew of him. I don't know him. But he has issues that are far
reaching.

The worst part was, his immaturity ( when I confronted him of what the
issue is really he hit the security alert and i asked why his almost on the
warpath, like a kid, he went to far. And the least thing will set him off
). It was alarming, mainly i was starring at someone who's acting out, at
one point I was like is he having some kind of episode or mental break down
no joke!

 This guy should not be apart of UCC if this is how he carries on. Is this
a new page of niche ucc memeber being allowed to act out and threaten other
students like that, he used the security button like an attack at me! He
hit the security alarm, he was not threatened, or attacked or verbally
abused, nothing against uni by laws had happened.

When I told him to cool down and that I think he went  too far or having
some kind of panic attack.  He even said I will get security no offence but
his wasting securities time because someone touched his chair and because
he lost it. And abused his rights and threatened me with security because I
said cool down dude I moved away from you, and breath you seem to be having
a panic attack. Or a period of mania. Funny thing is he was the aggressor
in all of this.

I even viewed the footage and his clearly irate, and he has no right to
kick someone out if he hasnt done anything against uni rules and
regulations against another student.

When he yelled move away !! I had moved like 4 feet from him and he kept
saying move away like having some fit. Then said get out and kept saying I
kicked his chair I saw the video nope I didn't. I told him at the time cool
it dude, I didn't kick your chair cool it.

Cause I confronted him losing it over someone bumping the leg of a chair is
he alright. I will inform the uni if ucc doesn't take this slightly
unstable dude and tell him their are other ways to treat people. You can't
act out like that. I told him in the real world and uni lectures you
wouldn't be allowed to act out like that. And no one acts like that at all.
He also slammed the door in my face. Then locked the door, I didn't even
get a chance to get all my stuff. I will get someone to get it.

No one at uni would tolerate his act, he even questioned why I was there
(he has no right and whether I was a uwa person ). Heck ucc has students
from curtain years ago at memebers. He has no right to claim that or abuse
me or question me. He is the most spiteful and aggressive person if he
doesn't get his way he loses it and abuses you and starts making
allegations at me for things at ucc.

I even mentioned to security what happened as I was leaving uni. No report
just informally telling them some student lost it and having a panic and
become abusive and aggressive  and slammed the door in my face. They said
he has no right on uni premises to do that. Club or not, uni owns the rthe
premises and no one has a right to slam the door and locked it that is seen
as a act of violence. Security said his slamming the door in my face is
seen as violent act and allegations warrant them remove him from Cameron
hall if I wanted to. I said no his just a spoiled kid, that gets aggressive
or maniac if he doesn't get his way.
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