limiting the connections

[Sony]

I am using the options.h to configure the number of connections allowed for
a dropbear server. But the server is configured as ssh     stream  tcp    
nowait  root    /usr/sbin/dropbear dropbear -Fi in the /etc/inetd.conf .
Each time a new connection request arrives, it will spawn a new dropbear
process. Each connection is handled by seperate processes, so i cannot limit
the number of connections by options.h configurations.
Is there a way i can use the same process for multiple connections ?